Aug 28 2009

BF, MBA, & AA

It’s amazing what a full night of sleep will do.  I need more of them.

Let’s see…it’s been a couple weeks since I’ve posted [sorry about that].  Update: Mr. W is my boyfriend again.  I realized that when I ended things, I did so because I was afraid.  I “pulled a Teri,” if you will.  He’s fixed some things, I’ve fixed some things, and we’re basically going slower this time around.  I am much happier now, but grateful for the mistakes of the first try because we’ve both learned from it.

Next week is Josh and Cynthia’s wedding, which seems surreal to me.  This year is really flying by.  I’ll try to get some pictures.  I look pretty good in that bridesmaid dress, if I do say so myself.  Of course, I may be biased.  Your boyfriend giving you the pet nickname of “Beautiful” does wonders for your self-esteem.

School is going well–got A’s in both Marketing and Managerial Accounting, which seemed incredibly unlikely as roughly half of all assignments were turned in late.  I’d wager a good 75% of all assignments were also complete b.s. on my part.  [It's nice to use my undergrad.]  I’m on quarter break until Sept 8th, whereupon I will start Finance Management [which I thought I all ready took, but oh well] and Information Management [which I do everyday as part of my job].  Hopefully an easy 8 weeks ahead!

I may also be shifting into a new job.  An office elsewhere in the country is being closed and the jobs are moving to my office.  Not everyone wanted to make the move, and there are some openings.  I’ve applied for one, but I hear there is a lot of competition what with the economy being so down.  So, fingers crossed!  Perhaps soon I can start referring to myself as an account administrator.  That almost sounds impressive, eh?  I might just start referring to myself as such anyway.


May 10 2009

Ongoing…

The SS strikes again!  This morning I received a text reading only, “Hey.”  I should mention he texted me “hey” a couple days ago also, but I didn’t respond then.  I couldn’t resist responding now.

Me: Yes?
Him: U free tomorrow
Me: No.  I learned my lesson last weekend.

He will stop now, right?  Right?!

In funnier news, if you aren’t familiar with my tweets on Twitter, then you don’t know who Mr. 11 is and the rest of this post won’t make a whole lot of sense.  Just know that Mr. 11 is an attractive guy I see in the morning on my way to work.  He gets his name because my scale goes to a fifteen.
 
The following is a conversation via Twitter messages.
 
I tweeted: The little girl inside me is thrilled by the fact that Mr. 11 always stands next to me. The rest of me rolls my eyes at her.
 
Andy: Just realize that Mr. 11 probably eats puppy stew every night whilst reclining on a baby seal pillow watching “According to Jim”
 
Chad:  ouch. dude, that is wrong on so many levels. who watches According to Jim anyway?
 
Me: I adore you both.
 
Andy: Either that, or Mr. 11 is secretly a prince from some foreign land & you’re Anne Hathaway, and Julie Andrews is somewhere close by.
 
Chad: Or…he’s a terrorist plotting to take over Chicago and only Teri can stop him by beguiling him with her mojo.
 
Teri: Now I’m torn. I like beguiling others, but I’d also like Julie’s autograph.
 
Chad: so…he’s a terrorist prince? Does saying terrorist on Twitter get you added to some secret watchlist so that they can blam–

Teri: Hmm, well it did something…


May 6 2009

Teri and the Curse of the Sunday Stand-Upper

So last Sunday I had a first date with a guy.  “But Teri,” I’m sure you’re thinking, “I thought you said you weren’t dating this year.”  I chalk it up to momentary delusion and would appreciate if, in the future, you could refrain from pointing out my inconsistencies, thank you very much.
 
This is a guy who first asked me out back in January.  I said no then, telling him that that I was taking a break from dating.  He didn’t pester me about it, but still kept in touch from time to time.  Last week he asked me out again.  I thought, “Eh, why not?  You’ve always said you wanted a guy with persistence, so how about rewarding it when you see it?”  So even though I still have no strong desire to become involved with someone, I said sure.  We made plans for him to come over on Sunday and just hang out.  He plays video games so maybe a little of that.  Maybe a movie.  Whatever.
 
Sunday came and Sunday went with no sign of or phone call from said guy, hereby referred to as the Sunday Stand-upper, or SS for short [because how fun is it to say I got a text message from the SS?].  “Well, that’s what I get for going back on a promise to myself,” I thought.  I dismissed him from my thoughts.
 
Monday morning the SS texts “hi”.  I ignore it.  Monday afternoon the SS texts “hi” again.
Me: So what happened on Sunday?
Him: was very tired.  how bout this weekend
Me: No.  I am also very tired.  Different kind, though.
 
No response.  “Surely now I can dismiss him!” I thought.
 
I got another text from the SS Tuesday afternoon: Hey
Me: You confuse me.
 
No response yet, but something tells me there will be one.  My working theories are three-fold:
1.) He’s crazy.
2.) He’s just that oblivious to social codes & cues.
and my personal favorite,
3.) His endgame is merely to piss me off.  In which case I give him an A for effort, but an F for results as it has only served to amuse the hell out of me.
 
Is it horrible of me to want contact with this guy to continue in order to blog it?  What’s he gonna do next?!  I want it to be hilarious, and I want to tell you all about it.
In other news, I am buying a Nikon 10megapixel hybrid SLR digital camera.  I am excited about it and all the pictures I tell myself I will take.  It has an 18x optical wide-lense zoom, so I can get some great shots at concerts.
 
Me: “When I get it, I’m gonna take lots of pictures of you!”
Tim: “What a waste.”
Me: “But they’ll be from really, really far away!”

Nov 20 2008

Crush?

So a guy who works in my building likes me.  I’ve only ever said the occasional "hello" or "thank you" to him, so his interest must stem from a physical attraction.  Something that is pretty unbelievable to me.  Of course, this is all through a 3rd party, and therefore might not be the most reliable of intel.  A woman with a penchant for gossip has been my informant.  A couple months ago she told me that he thought I was pretty, and, more recently, informed me that he "really wants to date me".

I don’t know why I’m blogging about this, other than that I find my reaction humorous.  If a guy said to me, "I’m attracted to how smart/funny/amazing-at-Guitar-Hero you are."  I’d think, "Okay, cool.  I am all those things, and you’ve earned points for noticing."  But if he said, "I’m attracted to how you look."  I’d think, "Okay, what’s wrong with you?"

I’m not being all "shower me with positive attention" here.  [So don't.]  I’m just stating that I have always had a very low opinion of my appearance.  Whenever I am confronted with an opposing opinion I am genuinely taken aback.


Aug 27 2008

Area Woman Gets Act Together, Updates

Certain songs mean more to me on certain days. There is no rhyme or reason to this–I’ll simply be listening to my iPod at work (as I am wont to do) when this certain song begins to play and suddenly, though I’ve heard it a hundred times before, on this particular day I think to myself: YES. That is it. Right there. (Apparently, I think in very short sentences.)

Today’s song is Simon & Garfunkel’s “Kathy’s Song.” I cannot stop my finger from pressing the repeat button as the song ends. I don’t know why. But the song is beautiful.
I love the last line:
There but for the grace of you go I

The SNG deserves a new name, I think. He is not seemingly nice. He *is* nice. My apologies for not posting more about him–I know friends are curious. It’s weird because though I can post the most intimate details of my own life (and have), I am reticent to post any that involve a second party. Why is this? But I suppose a little conscientiousness can never be a bad thing.

We went to a renaissance festival last Saturday. It had been a while since I’d been to one, and I really enjoyed myself. We got to watch a woman blow glass. And I bought a vase from her that has got to be one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen, let alone owned.

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(The flowers are from him.)

I need to write more. I’m hardly writing at all anymore. I barely even write in LJ and that was always my faithful standby. My “well at least I’m practicing some sort of writing in good ol’ LJ”. Hey, Teri. Message to you. FREAKIN’ WRITE MORE. (Told you I think in small sentences. My brain is the no-nonsense, no-frills counterpart to my, in this case anyway, fingers.)

Yes, Brain. I shall do my utmost to obey.
Damn straight.